Its meeting time. "Lets see keys, mobile phone, Bible. Lets go." If thats all the "getting ready" you do before the opening hymn, whether you are a brother or sister, may I offer some Bible-based suggestions?
Though most believers know that assembly fellowship involves more than merely "turning up" on time and filling a seat for an hour, truly getting ready for the meeting is fast becoming a lost art. Yet the Bible outlines three obligatory pre-meeting activities: preparation, examination, reconciliation.
For preparation, consider the Lords words in Exodus 23:15, "None shall appear before Me empty." Worshipers at the annual "callings together" of Israel had to come with an offering. None could simply arrive and feel they had done their duty.
Are there long gaps in the breaking of bread meeting where you gather? Do the brothers who take part repeat more or less the same words each week? Do a number of them never have anything to say at all? Surely, much of this poverty is due to a lack of exercise in preparation. Were we to regularly read and meditate on Gods Word through the week, our hearts would be full of material to present to the Father when we gather. The wise men did not pick up their gifts in the souvenir shops in Jerusalem. They brought them from the land where they lived. What will you be bringing this Lords Day?
For examination, refer to 1 Corinthians 11:28, "Let a man examine himself and so let him eat." Theres a solemnity about handling emblems that represent the body and blood of Christ. To spend the week soaking up the worlds entertainment, language, and company, and then to sit down and break bread without judging ourselves is to treat the Lord with contempt. How solemn, before going to the meeting, to kneel at the throne and ask the Lord to show us anything in our life that grieves Him, and to confess it and clear it. Are you willing to respond to Pauls earnest call for regular self-examination before taking the bread and the cup?
Regarding reconciliation, we have the Lords words in Matthew 5:23-24, "Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath ought against thee; leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift." This man had prepared something, but he still had a way to go. Perhaps as he examined himself he remembered an angry outburst against a brother; or a hasty cruel word hed written, or a debt he hadnt paid. He was aware that while he was outwardly professing all was well between him and his Lord, all was not well between him and his brethren.
Is there a bad feeling between you and another? Did your last conversation with someone end when you walked away in anger or slammed down the phone in frustration? Would you be willing to apologize and make it right, even if you feel you are not entirely to blame? Its a hard price to pay for an unhindered life of worship and a clear conscience but its worth it. Its worth it a thousand times over.
Are you ready for the meeting?